Sunday, January 13, 2013

I won't be bullied

I do not tolerate bullies and I felt I was being bullied for my political beliefs on Facebook. I can handle "discussion" but out right meanness and intimidation is not cool with me. I unfriended this person because of her actions now and in the past with me and she always talks in all caps which bothers me because I feel like I'm being yelled at. The only problem with me unfriending this person is I might lose a really dear friend because I did that. It's his fiancé and she will probably insist I am dropped as a friend. She will most likely demand it. I don't feel good about it but when she PM'd me and was mocking me by saying she was having fun with what she was doing to me I called her a F'ing C***. I have to be really pissed off to use that word because I hate that word. Now I am crying because I don't want to lose his fri4ndship that we've had for 8 years :( If he has any balls at all he will know what I am feeling and will stand up to her. He knows I am DID and his deceased wife was, as well. I was there for him through of that and if he throws it away over this then I know he was never my true friend.

7 comments:

  1. Good job keeping you safe Sherry.
    I agree that if he is a true friend he will let her control his friendship with you.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Great to have healthy boundaries and not put up with bullying! On the other hand politics is so controversial of a subject and such a heated discussion even within families that I avoid it at all cost including putting my opinions out there. I talk to just the people in person very few about a few of my beliefs and opinions and choices, this includes, my husband, therapist and mom only. I hope that your friend will not unfriend you and throw away the years of friendship. Unfortunately a love relationship usually trumps a platonic friendship and you know they say love is blind. Sorry you've gotten so furious and that this woman was so horrible and mean to you. Just my personal opinion avoid politics on social media sites to avoid negative conflict that only brings pain and hurt. Take it or leave the advice your perogative of course and I do believe we definitely are entitled to our own opinions and feelings. I just feel it is unwise to always share them publicly especially on such heated things. Hope all goes the best for you, LaurieAnn and lots of lost littles

    ReplyDelete
  3. I will still post political topics because I like friendly debates. This is the first time I've ever been bullied and it was by someone I added only because they became engaged to our good friend. On a happy note the friend I was afraid of losing has assured me nothing has changed between us because of this.

    ReplyDelete
  4. This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Fine way of telling, and good paragraph to obtain information on the topic of my presentation subject, which i am going to present in institution of higher education.
    Feel free to surf my web-site : cvd equipment corporation buy stocks

    ReplyDelete
  6. I am extremely inspired with your writing talents as neatly as with the layout to your weblog.
    Is that this a paid theme or did you customize it your self?
    Anyway keep up the excellent quality writing, it's uncommon to see a nice blog like this one today..
    Here is my weblog ... http://jennasworkfromhome.com

    ReplyDelete